Hey guys, I (early 30’s m) got out of a relationship a few months ago. She and I had tons of sex and we both really enjoyed it and each other - if only that was all we needed...

But I’m writing this because I’ve been having trouble getting to that level with other girls I’ve met recently. I’m pretty sociable, but always considered myself a pretty ‘good guy’ and have essentially conditioned myself to think that hitting on people for the purpose of sex is inappropriate. (How self defeating, right?)

So I’m here looking for advice? Any suggestions on how I may break the touch barrier on dates and hint at wanting to take things further? Any good online resources for that? Any dating apps for sex or hookups that are any good? (I’m skeptical) I find myself needing a push to get me back into feeling comfortable pursuing girls again after spending so much time being with one person.

Thanks, and hope this is appropriate for this sub!