I (m20) have been dating my amazing girlfriend (f21) for almost 2 years (2 weeks away!). I'm straight with no gay tendency or curiosity, but I do like assplay. I don't have a toy or anything, but want to start into all that stuff, and I need advice first. I'm a really hairy guy, so what's the recommendation for cleaning up down there? I'm also a bit overweight so self-inspection is difficult. My girlfriend and I have talked about it a bit and she's put her finger in, but that's all on her end. We've talked about getting a shower head with a hose at her place so I can clean more easily (she has also historically enjoyed those for her own reasons haha). I've played around a bit by myself and have taken an average size dildo (hers, with her permission) with just a bit of trouble, so I'm not worried. I guess I'm here looking for reassurance and advice on preparation. Thanks!