I’ve had my share of sexual encounters with straight guys in the past. Some out of curiosity, others maybe of desperation (“you pass off for a girl anyway”). Just to be clear, I do not have “a thing” for straight guys, they just sorta happened. I didn’t really give it much thought until I heard similar stories from friends. Not all of them ended with them having sex, but it got me to realize that it’s not that uncommon for straight guys to dabble in same-sex relations. This is how I got to asking what makes a straight guy want to have sex with another male (masculine or otherwise), besides his high libido.

For context: I am not from a sexually restrictive environment & no shortage of sex-positive females either. And yes, the men we have encountered (to our knowledge) have not engaged in any more M2M action. Some have gone on to get married, others who remain friendly are in a heterosexual relationship & do not speak of the past.

I am genuinely curious to hear what you guys have to say. Thanks.