My girlfriend (21F.../u/KoalaBear6969) and I (23M) are starting to develop a curiosity for anal. We’ve bought a small butt plug that will be coming in a few days. We know to take things very slow in order to build her up. We also know that lots of lube will need to be used in the process.

We talked about how this should go down when the time comes. We know that using condoms is obviously the safest way to go, due to normal tearing. However, we also have both come (cum?) to the conclusion that it would be REALLY fucking hot if I came in her ass with no condom on. As hot as that sounds, is it not worth the risk? For the record, we are both clean and STD-free, so there’s no worries there. I’ve heard that you do go unprotected, you should give a very thorough cleaning of your nether regions with soap and warm water when you’re finished. Is that okay? Is there something else that we should do afterwards? Or is it just really for the best to use a condom for anal? We value protection and good health practices above all else. Thank you for the help in advance!