And then you proceed to do what, exactly?

Last night I finally got permission to do this and ended up doing a foot massage and a lot of cockteasing. And some tickling. And a few other things that came to mind whilst he was lying there all adorable and stuff. Good sex was had and I love the creak of leather straining against pressure.

However he’s the first dude I’ve been with who let me do this but who doesn’t like pain. Looking for ideas that aren’t my usual wartenberg wheel or pain stimuli-type explorations.

Feathers, ice, heat, vibrators, maybe my violet wand came to mind. He doesn’t like butt stuff... yet. #boundaries :-)

And he’s usually the top. This was an indulgence that I earned for being a very good girl lately.