What do you (women) mean when you say 'harder' [sexual talk] [vocalization] [communication]

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tsotherland is in Communication

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Yeah, I know there is no single answer to this one. But I've seen it is common (both IRL and in porn) for women to ask for it 'harder' at some point. With an LTR, one can talk about it, but I'd like some sense of how 'typical' women mean it. Things I think it means

1) 'go faster'. Make cock go in and out of pussy at greater frequency 2) 'pound' Make sure to hit deeply and make solid contact between my pelvis and hers or her bum (positionally dependent) 3) 'grind' Get in deep and press and grind my pelvis against her clit etc.

Something else I haven't thought of?

Answers and comments desired.

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