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So I've been going out with a great girl for a couple of weeks and things seem to be converging into the bedroom (based on previous dating experience). When I've gone out with other women and had sex the first time, I've realized that it's kind of impossible to know how they're going to be in bed. A few have wanted it really rough right out of the gate (I'm not that into it but do it to please) and ones that I've been gentle with end up losing interest. I'm thinking that either lots of women want/expect it rougher out of the gate or I need to a better job of assessing my partner before things come to a head. Does anyone ever talk about sex before doing the deed? I'd really like to please my partner (and myself) the first time, but talking about it blatantly feels presumptuous...
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