I've been seeing a guy for a few months now. I am not a fan of oral, he has never done it for me, but I am happy to blow him every time we are together. However, since I don't like oral I asked him if he would eat my ass instead - to which he replied that he would ONLY do it if I did it for him as well. I have NO interest in doing this for him whatsoever. I know it is very one-sided, but anal-play on a guy is a complete turn off for me. I have been very open and have done everything else he has asked for, but I'm not sure how to respond to this.

He is a really masculine guy and the thought of him bent over while I eat his ass just seems very un-masculine to me I guess? I'm not sure how else to put it. I'm just worried that doing this for him will make me think of him differently. He also has no intention of shaving which just seems a bit uncomfortable for me.

Anyway, should I just suck it up and do this for him? Or should I voice my concerns? I really have no clue on how to be comfortable with this sort of thing as I've never done it before. I'm also worried that it will eventually turn into him asking me to do more with his ass which I definitely have no interest in. I am at the point where I'm willing to give up the idea of him eating my ass just so I can avoid this. I need help, any advice would be greatly appreciated!!