I guess I never do because I don't want him to feel like his own penis isn't good enough. He hasn't ever told me that me touching myself during sex would spark that feeling inside of him, but rather it is a gut reaction inside of me. I guess I would feel bad about myself if my guy had to stimulate himself somehow while I was f***ing him. How do I get over this feeling? I've read that it's really a good way to have better sex which is exactly what I need right now. However, when I do touch myself I just feel awkward and that I'm making my boyfriend feel lesser. And he can't touch my clit during sex because he doesn't know how to locate it so let's just stick with me touching my own clit during sex.

Men: Would this make you feel not as good as your were before during sex?

Women: Does this work as well as the Internet says it does?

Edit: I guess someone brought up a point of touching myself in front of my boyfriend to turn us both on and to show him what I like but two reasons why we don't do that. The main One) is that it adds this horrible pressure to orgasm that I can't handle and therefore if he's in the room I make sure he's not looking. Two) I don't think it really turns him on. I'm kind of a boring masturbator. I'm not just saying that he is the one who told me that. So therefore I think a combination of these two things on why I have issues touching myself during sex. I guess it's because he's watching me and that adds pressures that I can't deal with and I don't want him to get bored of me but honestly the pressure is the worse factor.