Came home from work yesterday to my recently moved into house and my housemate and her new man were there.- she met him on tinder, he seems like a bit of a prick if I'm honest- anyway, as we were unpacking previously, we both joked about having a naughty draw (in my case it's more of a chest :L) and I thought nothing more of it, until yesterday. She tells me she's been in there, borrowed a pack of task cards and had a good old rummage. She ended this whole scene with removing my suction cup dildo from its case, going 'this made me howl' and then the new man goes 'I don't feel for the poor guy you'll be beating the shit out of with that riding crop'.

I feel violated, hurt and confused. I also feel funny because I'm a sub, I get the shit beaten out of me. It's not right is it? Housemates should have personal space. I'm also worried that if she's 'borrowing' my taskcards, is she also borrowing the rest of my collection? I own stuff she wouldn't even know what to do with, where do I go from here? Help me sedditors!