I'm currently seeing a pretty great lady who has a bit of a sub/mild-cuckquean personality. We've talked a lot recently about fantasies and have gone through with a few of them (e.g. late night exhibitionism). Last night my fantasy of a multiwoman blowjob came up. Her sharing limit is basically that I can not have PIV sex with anyone else but can do pretty much anything other than that. She has given me the ok to post in RAOBJ in the past, to which I've had ok results. she wants to arrange a three girl oral session for me but we are both unsure of how to recruit without screwing things up, especially since I won't be engaging in PIV sex with anyone other than her.

SLS is it off the picture as she doesn't want her images there and people will assume I'm a single verified male who is posing as a couple. CL sucks. I'd rather not pay for AFF and I don't think Fetlife is the right avenue, though we are going to a local club on Friday hosted by a group there.

More than that I am worried about the approach - how the hell am I supposed to do this? Sure, I guess we could all go out, have some fun, but then what? I am completely fine with giving oral but then two women would be sitting out. I also know that things can escalate quickly in moments of passion and the other women might want more than oral. Though this exercise is to fulfill my fantasy and physical pleasure I do want to keep her wishes in mind.

TL;DR: GF ok with me getting two other ladies for oral fun but no PIV. How can I ensure no crossed boundaries/hurt feelings? Need advice re: recruiting, too.