So I’ve just set up a house to work away from home, on an island - I fly in and out to work and wife visits me occasionally and I go home when I can- like once a month. We have good enough sex life but I’ve felt it’s been too vanilla for ages - you know we been married and partnered for like eva. We have great home for visitors with separate ensuite and friends if family are visiting- gay couple and I think my wife is kinda bi but as far as I k ow never acted out. We’re empty nesters now and and she hasn’t responded to my texts and I’m kinda low down hoping she gets wild and funky and finds a new side of herself but I’m also like paranoid what’s up- she’s having fun and I’m on the outer. Appreciate your insights and comments on the situation.