I (33F) have been with my boyfriend (32M) for almost 4 months. We are long distance so we only see each other about once a month. He is a great person and I love his personality. However, sex has been a bit challenging. He has a large beer belly and I have a really big butt. His penis size is also on the smaller end. Also, we are both around the same height. This makes almost all positions impossible. We are only able to have sex in cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, where I am doing all of the work. He is also constantly slipping out, which makes It hard to really get into it. He is also not great at oral sex though he is very open to learning. I don’t want this to be a deal breaker, but I would love to be able to enjoy sex more fully, and especially able to try new positions. I am open to trying anything and am invested in making this work.