Hey yall, something came up recently and the bestie of my gf apparently aked her if she‘d want a foursome with her and her bf. She told me a few days ago but this happend about 2 weeks before. My gf turned the offer down, but tbh I am kinda mad she did right away without asking me. I am completely fine with her not being comfortable with her besties bf, but from what we have talked about and else, I know she‘s not against having sex with others. Btw her bestie asked again when I was there too, and I‘d love to take this opportunity, but we told her we would think about it. How can I handle this situation, and maybe convince my gf to go for it? advice needed