I coast for hours when I have the time; porn, imagination, clit/vaginal orgasms (7 being my highest in a row). I stop when I’ve had enough, and really enjoy the fantasy and exploration — not even looking to orgasm, just playing and getting a feel for things.

But from what I’ve heard, most sex goes for shorter than that. An hour, maybe a little more or less. Foreplay even less. I’m starting to wonder if my habits might make sex with a partner worse.

I’d happily just let someone vibe it out with little aim for an orgasm even, but it seems the standard ‘sex’ has a specific kind of formula. Do people actually screw for hours (and for days in a row) like I masturbate? Is my way of doing it worth trying to fix?