Wife proposed watching me with a guy. I want to do it. But I find myself a bit apprehensive also. For some context: I am a 38M, wife is 35F. I am bisexual, she is not. We have a great sex life and it tends to be fairly adventurous, but has remained monogomous. We have a toy we use some times in conjunction with oral, that is larger than myself, and she always enjoys it immensely, more than just me. Given that, I have proposed we have a threesome with a guy with a similar size. I get to play and so does she. She said she really isn't into that idea as she doesn't want anyone but me. Bummer, but also great. This same toy she sometimes uses in me. Yes, I do enjoy it. In discussing the aforementioned scenario, she said she wouldn't have a problem with watching just me with a guy. I'm intrigued, I do want to do it. She said she would probably get naked and like rub me during, which is hot. But also I'm apprehensive. She said it's not a fantasy for her, doesn't necessarily turn her on, she just knows I would enjoy it. I also feel like it would be a little unfair of me. What should I do? Ladies, have any of you done this with your husbands? What were your reasons, feelings, etc.?