I recently started seeing someone (less than 2 months) and our first time having sex was a few days ago. They were drunk celebrating their birthday. They blurted out a few drunken things that I feel like we need to talk about & I’m dreading it 😭. Example: got the classic accidental “I love you” between rounds but also got some cohabitation comments, etc. They also got a crash course in some of my kinks that we haven’t talked about yet. Example: we didn’t stop having sex when a few of their friends called to wish them a happy birthday & we let them listen for a while 🫣.

We’ve talked a little bit about sex before this but I definitely wanted to have more of a discussion beforehand. Also, I told myself that I wasn’t going to sleep with anyone I’m seeing until I’m in a committed relationship ‘cause I’m trying a different approach with sex & dating (although I didn’t tell them this). Obviously that didn’t happen. But I can’t say that I’m surprised ‘cause the few times we’ve hung out their hands are always all over me & we always end up making out. Lol this conversation is gonna be interesting 😅. Any advice? Has anyone been in a similar situation?? What if they don’t remember some of their comments, should I not bring them up???