Hey everyone I (M21) have decided to make a big change this year.

I graduated high school almost 4 years ago. And in HS I was an athlete I was pretty popular, had a lot of flings a couple girlfriends and I was actually confident. Immediately after graduating and up until a week ago. I was just not having it. I lost motivation to workout and take care of myself. Haven’t had sex or a gf in 3 years.

Been in the gym consistently for the last week eating healthy, etc. and I want to know. Will being more fit and healthy as an adult make me more sexually attractive as an adult? I know with being in shape I had confidence. And that’s not all I’m changing for. Doing it for myself, but yes, I miss sex a lot haha.

I have a vacation to Nashville in July (which according to my friends, a lot of attractive and sexually open women are on Broadway). And my goal is to get in shape by then.

Again… big question if I get toned and shit, with confidence, will that make me sexually attractive. Will women want to date me or just hookup? I’ll be 22 next week, i want to live my 20s pretty well!

Any advice would be appreciated. Genuinely curious