Hey, Im 28M and Ive always had a kink for lactation. My girlfriend and I have had a good sex life overall, but my kinks were never explored. Recently my unfulfilled fetish has started to create tension.

Im really into female bodily fluids like spit, squirt, sweat, and especially breast milk. My girlfriend, however, dislikes bodily fluids and avoids them. While Ive gotten some satisfaction from wetter kisses or the rare times she squirts, lactation has never been possible since she’s never been pregnant or tried inducing it.

Lately, I’ve been more open about my fetish, but she says it makes her feel devalued and incompatible with me sexually. Since then, she’s lost interest in sex and is now considering ending the relationship. This feels sudden, as we’ve been together for two years with no major issues she’s always been vanilla, and it worked fine until now.

I even used to explore this kink with others, but now that I’ve expressed wanting to try it with her, it’s become a dealbreaker. I’ve offered to stop bringing it up or to go back to fulfilling it outside the relationship, but she refuses. She says it’s irreparably damaged her attraction to me.

I’m at a loss. Has anyone dealt with something similar? How do I navigate this without losing her?