I (F19) just went on a date with a guy (M22) I met on hinge. We’ve been talking for a week and it’s been really fun, we have most of the same interests (except I’m sober and he’s not) and we called for 2 hours so I know we can hold a conversation.

Anyways I worry I came off as too prudish because I don’t drink or do drugs but I have an incredibly high sex drive, like I listen to like 15-20 hours of smut a week and fantasize about it. I don’t sleep around because I’m scared of STDs/STIs so I prefer short term FWBs.

Which leads us here! He hasn’t talked about sex at all. I am so used to guys bringing up sex within the first few days, but the most I’ve gotten is a vague “i have needs” when I asked why he was on hinge as a introvert.

He invited me onto a second date at his house and from what I’ve seen on the internet that means hookup right? I want to talk to him about sex so badly but I also want to stay friends with him after all this and I don’t know how to communicate that I’m a horndog.

I want to know beforehand bc the first time I get freaky with someone, I like to show off my head skills and wait for sex. I don’t even know if sex is on the table 💀

TL;DR: I am a horny horny 19F and this dumbass 22M I met on hinge hasn’t brought up sex once despite us texting everyday for hours and calling for a week.(I fear I’m just a man at the end of the day)