The guy I dated last month was hands down the best sex I’ve ever had. When I say the best, I mean he brought to life everything I’d only ever imagined. As an introvert, he made me feel comfortable enough to embrace my more uninhibited side, which I’ve never been able to fully express in past relationships due to feeling judged or embarrassed. Meeting him was one of the most liberating experiences of my life, and I honestly crave every moment of it. I loved how in sync we were, and I never thought I’d be able to explore those desires in real life.

But now, things are over. I found out he’s seeing other women and hooking up with them. I was hurt and disappointed. And now, even though we’ve ended things, I can’t shake the longing for him. My urges are tempting me to reach out, to get him back, just for another taste. But my conscience tells me that’s not in line with my values. Yet, the pull of that amazing connection makes me want to act on pure desire and be selfish for once.

I’ve tried everything to move past it, but nothing seems to get him out of my system. How do I let go of this?