I'm a virgin, my gf is also a virgin. We've been trying for a long time to go below her waist. But it always stops at oral as neither of us have ever entered her vagina. She always plays with her clit and stops there and has never tried to push her fingers inside and whenever she's tried on her own, she has failed mostly because she can't find the opening or she can't push because of the pain. And me being a virgin, idek where or how to push my fingers - so PIV is already out of reach. We're a long distance couple... We'll be meeting soon and I'm planning to give her a sexy massage with some coconut oil as I've heard lubing up works. Please help me and give me tips... We both are in ther right mind to have sex and do more than just oral but we keep failing.