I am 31M and I cannot relax my brain or body to fully immerse myself in sex. I feel like my brain is always on and I can never quite allow myself to enjoy the moment. I’ve been very stressed with work all while trying to maintain a long distance relationship. I’m currently visiting her for thanksgiving and our first time alone was yesterday. I got hard no problem as she is beautiful and sexy but fucking was whole other deal. I felt like I got close 3 times but could never finish. My brain kept jumping around to almost anything but orgasm. She had a good time and finished with me giving her some JOI/dirty talk.

I love her and I am attracted to her, but I can’t let myself sink into the moment and it’s driving me crazy.

Not sure if this contributes to the discussion, but she thinks I may have developed a late case of ADD. I’m definitely anxious and I know should go see a professional about this. Anyone else have similar experiences?

Thanks in advance.