I’ve been debating about posting this but tbh I still don’t have an answer and I guess I’m just hoping someone can relate or have any thoughts. I’ve been in a long term relationship for about 8 years and I have never cheated on my partner. I usually get regular std screenings every 3-6 months as I do go in for regular check up’s. The last time I was tested before this was about 3 months prior and all negative. Now At the beginning of October I started getting this intense pelvic pain that wouldn’t even let me sit or lay down. I went to the ER and got diagnosed with an ectopic pregnancy rupture. I got emergency surgery and everything was fine.. or so I thought. When I went in for this I got tested that same day and everything came back negative. I couldn’t have sex or anything for about 3 weeks which was fine. About 3 days prior to me going in for my 3 week post op check I got some head from my bf and I was the only one who received. During my post op I got tested for stds since I did have itching and painful urination, they told me I had a yeast infection and got treated for that and my symptoms left. About 2 days later I get a call from the doctor and my urine cultures came back positive for chlamydia. I was so pissed thinking my boyfriend had cheated as I 100% know I haven’t cheated on him. He swears up and down he hasn’t done anything, he also got tested and came back negative… so then we got retested to makes sure and sure as hell I was still positive and he was negative. He then told me the night before going to my house he had went to a strip club and got a dance from a stripper and she put her ass in his face and didn’t think much of it as it was only for a couple seconds. Maybe she had it and the bacteria stayed on his face and then passed it to me through head?? I’m not really sure that’s how it works as I know stds appear 5-7 days after exposure sooo…I don’t even know what to believe nowadays. I don’t know what to think and now he’s questioning me because how am I positive and he is negative??? The math just isn’t mathing here 😭 I have a follow up appointment until January so hopefully I can get some answers but for now I want to have some peace of mind or tbh I’m not sure what I’m looking for but I just know I’m super confused and don’t know where to look for answers.