Earlier in the church my bf's (35M) friend (39M) kept looking at me while subtly rubbing his crotch. I started to notice it since last week and now he did it again so I asked my bf on txt about his friend's actions. He then said to me that his friend knew about our relationship because he saw us outside a motel a week ago. After that they talked about our relationship and I am afraid, also about our private stuff. My bf assured me that there is nothing to worry about and the secret is safe but he jokingly said his firend won't tell no one if i give him a blowjob. When my bf asked me about it earlier he seemed pretty chill about the thought his friend wants me to give him a blowjob. He then asked me if ever I have a thought about doing it then I said no but he said he won't be mad. Made me think he is definitely doing something behind the scenes. Anyway, I still haven't agreed to the request and I'm anxious.

Update: I won't do it. That man is married, and i would tell my bf what i feel about this situation tomorrow.