Hi everyone. I’ll try not to be too explicit but I want to give a clear idea of the exposure I think I had.

I’ve been hooking up with a friend of mine periodically since August. Last night, he stayed over and he didn’t want to have sex but was fine with pretty much anything else.

He fingered me while jacking off and came on my back. Then, he fingered me again. At one point I know I was also sucking on his fingers, so both hands were inside of me after he’d touched himself.

I asked him afterwards why he didn’t want to have sex, and lo and behold, the bastard has herpes and was having an outbreak. We’ve only ever had unprotected sex, but he said he’s never felt the need to tell anyone because it’s common and often asymptomatic. He said he just doesn’t have sex when he has an outbreak. He also believed it could only be spread through direct contact with the infected area.

But I either had that hand in my mouth or inside of me afterwards, not to mention his cum, but idk if it’s contagious through that. I scrubbed every inch of my body this morning and am going to wash everything in my bed after work, but is there anything else I can do?