I have looked into CFNM on reddit and not found much that is for discussion and advice etc. It's all very new to me but it's been something that has always been an interest. My partner and I (me = male, partner = female) have tried it once or twice and my partner has been amazing at fulfilling it for me but I am unsure how far to take it?

I also want to ensure it does not become a one way street in the sense of I am not giving much back aside from thanking her (which feels odd to say).

I want to make sure she is enjoying it as much as I am, I would hate to think I am dismissing her in some way and just making it about me, does anyone have any advice for couples who are newly exploring it as a form of bedroom play?