I've been seeing a girl for over a year now. I consider her a friend and we have amazing sex. She always says she appreciates the safety she can feel with me and how much I take care of her (after care, foreplay, massages) I've never been good at asking for my needs(during sex and in life generally lol) so I have a tough time asking or even thinking of what I'd like. Sure I could say, more head but that's really been done before when it naturally happens and I appreciate that. A couple things on my mind is asking for ass play, such as, being fingered and licked. This along with wanting someone to watch us. She's bi curious, so a female watching us would be hot. The only problem is I'm way too shy to ask. Ladies, any suggestions on how to go about this? Also, guys, anything you'd ask for if you were granted a sexual wish?