Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, and I love how masculine his appearance is, it’s one of my favourite things about him and a cornerstone of my attraction to him. But recently he’s started wanting to express his femininity and explore his gender?

I’m really not that attracted to “femboy” type men, I like feminine looking men, this will sound cringe but Timothee Chalamet/“twink” looking men are still pretty attractive to me, but once they start to wear skirts and present overtly like, well, a girl, I start to lose all attraction and I really don’t want to lose my favourite person in the world just because of this.

How can I learn to accept this and start to feel genuine attraction to his new expression? Will it just come with time as I get used to it? I’m so happy he is feeling comfortable enough with me to be open, but I’m scared that my straightness will reduce my attraction to him physically and sexually (i’m very sexually submissive).

He is so beautiful inside and out, I’m so scared of my emotions right now, if anyone can give a word of advice that would be so wonderful!