I'll try and make this as concise as possible.

I'm a 28 year old guy currently on vacation on Japan with one of my oldest friends from high school. We've joked during our entire planning that I'd lose my virginity at one of the soaplands here. But now that I'm actually here and the trip is coming to a close soon, I'm finding the idea to be more appealing.

I want to make it clear, my friend isn't peer pressuring or shaming me for being a 28 YO virgin. He's even offered to pay the service fee for me, which I've declined. The only thing stopping me from being 100% onboard is the moral dilemma, I guess. I want to experience being with a woman, but I've waited this long and it kind of seems like a cheap way to lose it.

Any advice would be much appreciated.