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I feel kind of expendable during sex
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I'm in a casual relationship (a friends with benefits sort of thing). I enjoy sex with my partner, and she enjoys herfelf too, but I have the feeling that I'm not really a part of the equation. She cums every time, but I don't feel like I'm helping her, cause I barely do anything: I just follow her lead, often remaining still while she does all the work, as if she were masturbating with a pillow.

I don't feel used or anything like that; she's always very sweet with me (in general, not just during sex). But I don't feel like I'm giving anything to the table.

What can I do? Should I just relax and stop overthinking?

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