just kinda venting here, i’ve been with my bf for about 6 months now and the other day i finally confronted him over the fact he doesn’t seem to like giving me oral. he admitted it doesn’t turn him on and he doesn’t crave it, but he would only do it if i ask. then, he said- i do love 69. i don’t know why, i just do. and it’s apparently the only way he can cum from a blowjob, is if we are 69.

i’m so confused and honestly hurt, he said he’s never really been turned on by oral but he said he wants to make me happy so he’ll do it whenever i ask. the problem is i don’t want to ask, and he knows that. i love giving blowjobs, and he never has to ask me, because i’m genuinely enthusiastic

now with the 69 thing. i’m just perplexed. he couldn’t even explain why 69ing is hot but giving me oral is not a turn on. does anyone have any insight maybe?