I (22m) lost my virginity to an older woman (30F) early this year. Ever since then I have lost what feels like a lot of my motivation I once had.

Prior to this I would masturbate & have thoughts regularly throughout my late teens / early 20s.

And around 14-16 I feel like was my peak, a period of my life where it was borderline annoying to deal with and affected my daily life I was so obsessed.

Is this a side affect of something like the Hedonic Treadmill? Or is this not normal ?

Edit: for example, girl I’m seeing right now wants to have multiple rounds, after just 1 im already done. past me would be yelling at myself of just the idea of that