New to the kink world and would like to be more of a switch then a Dom or Sub all the time. My partner would also like to play this same role. Does anyone have some advice on how to have more fun with switching roles when in kink play? I love to be in the Dom role but loves when he is also in control during play. Any recommended literature on how to play both roles effectively and not switching each time we play? I love anal play but would want to be in control during this time. I also want to milk him which I'd want to be in the Dom role for. Some pointers for afrer care for him besides what we discuss that you find are helpful.