So I have a pretty high sex drive. I just got out of a relationship and I’ve had moments where I have this insane urge to fuck, but no one to do it with. So I’ll go on one of the dating apps and swipe and swipe with no real intention to hookup, but I’ll be looking for someone I can at least have a conversation whom I have some good attraction and chemistry with.. it never fails, I never find it and eventually it just leaves me discouraged. I don’t like to watch porn too much either. The chemistry I’m talking about usually isn’t happening in porn.. it’s just all straight objectification. Even went on a porn site that’s supposedly tailored to women but it still gives that porno vibe. I think I’m just craving a passionate lover who can give me mindblowing sex.. someone I can’t take my hands off of. But they’re nowhere to be found.. it’s so frustrating 😭 I didn’t really have that with my ex because he was so hung up on my sexual past, so that insecurity turned me off. I’m wondering if we’ll talk things out and I can see if he’s changed at all.. idk, but I’m not exactly betting on it… I’ll go to the gym and see someone and they’d never know that I’m attracted to them cus I’ll give just one glance they’ll be on my mind. It’s like I create this elaborate fantasy and I never actually get it. Idk any tips on how to better direct this energy and use it for myself would be appreciated