I'm in my twenties, and the stereotypes of an older guy, mentally more developed than me, more stable and solidified in his lifestyle, interesting less from a place of dependency and more choice, is attractive.

Likewise, I like being independent and having my own boundaries and space, whilst being the complimentary other half. Being younger, more changing and flexible, eager to win or impress, and interested in exploring and learning sounds like something sort of natural for me, and like it works well with the above kind of person.

I'm not saying these are exclusive to certain ages or genders, but just that these cliche power dynamics and personalities specifically are one of the main ways I'm able to be sexually attracted to. Is this indicative of deeper issues, or something to be worried about?

I guess I'm curious about how 'natural' this really is, or if these kinds of relationships have worked for you. Likewise, if it's wrong to find this dynamic inherently sexual and sexually stimulating. I almost always seek these out, and fantasise about being the 'lamb' or innocent one, I guess.