Hi Reddit, l've decided to come here after thinking on this a while.

So a little under 2 weeks ago I got a BJ from a girl and we both talked about it and said we were clean. But 5 days after i started seeing bumps. I did my research and chopped it down to ingrown pubic hairs(maybe), did do a very quick and medicore shaving job the night of. However what l've seen hasn't gone away, they look like stand alone pimples with some hairs sticking out, should I be concerned and go get tested, or wait it out for a bit and see if they go away. I'm kinda concerned that it might be herpes although it doesn't look like the images l've seen online.

Also side question, there was a lot of kissing before, so if she did have oral herpes, would I notice the STI on my mouth and genital area or just genital area.