Hi everyone! This is my first post in this community. I need some advice on my first potential hookup... So let me describe the situation a lil bit. I (26F) met this guy (M29) on Fetlife. We both share the fantasy of femdom and pegging. He wants me to use a strapon to peg him and this is sth that I've been wanting to try. I myself am not into doing traditional penetrative man-on-woman sex. I told him that and he said he won't touch me he just wants me to penetrate him. So we exchanged snaps and we decided to meet up in 2 weeks (and in the meanwhile we are just gonna stay in touch and chat a lil bit everyday). I am really excited about doing it. However, I am also really scared at the same time. The fear of getting raped and assaulted is constantly on my mind. I talked about it with him and he said we can go to a hotel and it would be a safer option since hotels usually require ID registration and have cameras. I also thought about sending the address of the hotel on the date of the hookup to a friend. I wonder if anyone can give me any advice? Should I just nope out of it to stay safe? I wish someone who has experiences with hookups in the past can give me some advices. Thanks!