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How do I tell my boyfriend I don’t want to take my shirt off for sex anymore?
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I’ve (22f) always struggled with my weight but never really struggled with people seeing me naked. Recently, I’ve started exploring gastric bypass and while I’m just in the pre op phase right now I’m still losing weight. Regardless, I don’t know if I want to take my shirt off in front of my boyfriend (23m) anymore. I’ve been very self conscious about my size and appearance since starting this journey and I’m not really sure what to do.

My boyfriend loves me as I am now and is very supportive of me pursuing this route.

I’m more worried about phrasing it in a way that doesn’t make it sound like it’s anything he did.

Advice?

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