So I (24m) finally had my first intimate experience with another guy, I'm a total virgin so I know that I don't have any STI's but I know that he's had boyfriends in the past and has dated before. We've been on two dates before and last saturday I was at his place and we had oral sex, and I'm pretty sure that I had his sperm on my penis. It was so intimate and we were both a bit drunk so I didn't even think about asking if he's ever gotten tested. I really wanted to be careful and had condoms with me, but just forgot about it in the heat of the moment. It hit me only today how stupid this was, how am I supposed to ask him about this now? I'm gonna see him again this weekend, but could I also just ask him via text because I'm kind of freaking out rn... and how should I ask him about this?