I'm a 45 yo bisexual man married to a 38 yo bisexual woman. I've been struggling with my same-sex attraction for most of my life and I recently decided to embrace and enjoy my bisexuality. However, I have internalized homophobia and biphobia in that I'm not quite comfortable indulging in same-sex fantasies and looking at men the way I look at women and I have a lurking fear that I'm really just gay and not able to realize that. Steps I'm taking to address this are:

1. Talking about all this with my wife.
2. Talking about all this with my therapist.
3. Telling myself each day that my bisexuality is beautiful, natural, and healthy.
4. Participating in r/bisexual.
5. I came out to my doctor and sister.
6. Reading books on bisexuality.
7. Listening to podcasts on bisexuality.
8. Indulging in bisexual fantasies.

Is there anything else any healthy bisexuals would recommend that I do within the bounds of a committed monogamous marriage?