*Trigger Warning* 21m - can get erect easily but when go soft when penis is touched

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So I'm 21 male in a relationship with someone I was previously friends with.

When we're intimate I can get erect easily and turned on. However when my partner touches my penis I go soft. I have experienced some sexual violence in the past and it's the first time I've been intimate since. I wouldn't say I'm scared of physical touch as I really enjoy it but occasionally do get scared in moments but I don't notice this and really enjoy being touched by my partner.

When my partner starts to touch my penis I do begin to get anxious or nervous and immediately lose the the erection. I'm told we can go slow but I do feel my partner is wanting to do more.

What can I do to combat this as when I'm on my own I have zero issues.

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