My wife has always been conservative in the bedroom and we have struggled with dry spells at times due to her Low libido. In recent months although not the consistency I would like, we have been having the best sex of our lives.

This got me thinking, throughout our relationship I have very much led the way and take the lead in the bedroom. She has toys that she is willing to use when the time is right and has generally tried most things I have suggested.

Through her own admission she likes sex but I think she gets wrapped up in her own head about taboos.

She is very much a submissive in the sheets in the fact that I can put her in any position. There have been times where I have absolutely railed her and other times where she requests a 10 second quickly.

Recently, it’s like a switch has clicked her (f38) is really passionate and the sex is far from mundane. I recently choked her lightly which gave her a hard orgasm, but when I asked if she liked it, she didn’t want to talk about it and shut the conversation down.

It got me thinking, is she actually quite adventurous in the bedroom? What constitutes adventurous these days?

How do I help to unlock this adventurous side further? Kind of a unusual realisation that my wife is quite the sex minx

Advice welcome