My girlfriend has long and lush pubic hair that she's been growing for a whole year without shaving or trimming at all. We both like this style, and I've also been growing mine out since we've been in a relationship.

We’re going on vacation soon, spending two weeks in a warm country. She says that she’ll feel embarrassed wearing a bikini at the beach or pool because her pubic hair will show under the swimsuit, or be visible through it, and she wants to shave or trim it because she thinks people will stare, judge, and have negative thoughts about it.

How can I convince her to leave it natural?

Do you think people really pay that much attention to this when they see women on the beach or at the pool?

Personally, if I saw a woman with hair showing from her bikini, it wouldn't bother me at all. In fact, I’d even find it sexy…