My wife and I regularly do xxxmas, though this year she suddenly wanted to flip the script and have us purchase ourselves the gift rather than for the other.

Previously, I’ve struggled a bit to enjoy men’s toys. Rings tend to be uncomfortable, in the way, and pulls on hairs. Vibes don’t really stay in place, except one in particular that has worked really well for anal with the goal of vibing up the genitals, though I think she enjoys the effect a bit more than me. So the regular string of failures with respect to toy enjoyment has kinda made the whole process a challenge. It’s not uncommon that I get a toy, and feel like I’m using it wrong despite following the instructions 😅

Masturbation toys aren’t exactly on the table; though I’d still be interested in what yall recommend about there. I use to have a Tega flip. It got a little gross towards the end of its life, but it was enjoyable up until then.