Hi so I don’t really know how to explain this or if everyone thinks like this but anyway:

I (23f) enjoy sex with men and women and I do get turned on during sex and I love sex and always want it. However, I don’t find myself aroused by looking at men/women or looking at pictures of them.

So I’m just a bit confused by what this means? Like I rarely ever look at a person and think I want to have sex with them from their outwards appearance and I wouldn’t get wet/turned on just by looking at pictures/videos of men or women. I can appreciate when someone is attractive in real life or in pictures and I enjoy looking at naked pictures but physically it doesn’t turn me on or arouse me in any way.

I have a really high libido and when having sex with either I always enjoy it, am turned on and want to do it whenever the opportunity arises. However, during and afterwards I find myself thinking I’m not even attracted to them I just enjoy the sex.

I thought most women felt this way but I was speaking to a friend of mine and she said she could get wet just by looking at pictures of someone.

Can anyone explain what this means? Is this common?? Am I asexual?? I have no idea and am quite confused to be honest. Maybe I am attracted to them and just overthinking it?? What does feeling attracted to someone even feel like? So many questions and so confused pls help 🥲