Needing confidence and bravery to explore

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Long story short. We have been together just over 10 years. I (47f) used to indulge in ALL my kinks He (48m) has I'm sure too, but not certain We have not TRULY discussed what eachothers kinks are I really am unsatisfied with our patterns and form of sex. I have a feeling he is too. I really try hard to be spontaneous, initiate, do what I can decipher he enjoys But I really think we need to step it up

After all this time, how do I get it out of him what he R E A L L Y wants and tell him mine as well? Communication on this is difficult for me, but also not sure how to truly get an honest answer from him. Anyone have some suggestions or methods for long term relationship boosting?

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