how do i stretch my hymen before i have sex with my bf?

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i (18) and my boyfriend (18) have been dating for quite a while and we’ve been talking about having sex soon. i’ve gone down on him a few times and i was absolutely shocked when i saw how big he was.

anyway, im super nervous to have sex with him for the first time because he’s so big. also, i can’t even fit my entire finger inside of me, let alone two.

so my question is, how do i “pop my cherry” before i have sex with him? whenever i finger myself it’s like my vagina “stops” or something. it doesn’t really hurt, it’s just anticipation of “breaking” my hymen open that gets to me sometimes.

so how should i go about this?

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