So l male (20) hired someone to clean my apartment, after they arrived we had some small talk after they'd cleaned the apartment and I started to kind of feel attracted to them. The 2nd time they came over I told them that I wouldn't want them to continue to clean for me anymore because of said attraction but wasn't at a stage in my life where I wanted to peruse anything. After that though, they also said they felt the same. Prompting us to both kind of sit down and have some small talk, small talk lead to cuddling a bit, and well ya know. It's important to mention this cleaner is about 30 years old. Which is why l'm here now. I'm worried sick about contracting any STD cause we weren't using protection everything was so quick and I didn't have any preparation for this to happen. They have told me they've had previous sexual partners in the past and mostly have used protection other than the two times post being tested 8 months ago, with everything coming out negative. These are all words though. I am terrified as I come from an extremely conservative family and I personally want to have a life in the future with kids and to hopefully live a long life. I have no idea where to go from here it's been about a day and I'm trembling, I'm going to take the 10 panel test in 2 weeks just to see if everything is ok. I need help from anyone here who can give me any input am I blowing things out of proportion or am I not looking into this too much? I have taken DoxyPEP anti biotic about 36 hours after this incident to mitigate any diseases but please tell me if there's anything else I can do? PLEASE HELP! UPDATE: She’s taking a test after I explained my concern, should I still take a test after she takes one?