I’m 19(M) and my girlfriend is also 19. We’ve been together for a year and a half now and she didn’t reach orgasm once. All the time we’ve been together I knew she really wanted to reach it because she didn’t experience it before and I was really determined to make it work. We tried Almost everything, mostly with fingers. She don’t really like it when I’m trying to go down and use oral because she thinks it weird even though I’m trying everything in my powers to make her feel comfortable. I tried to use many many techniques and none of them worked. I’m feeling like when we are engaging in something when I try to put my hand somewhere and start something the second she don’t really like it she just stops and gets frustrated. And then we just don’t do anything for 2-3 weeks. It’s really frustrating for me also. Even when and I try to communicate with her and ask her what she feels and what she likes she says she doesn’t know and it like my job to make her feel good and I’m not putting enough effort and that’s why it never works. When I try to make things slowly it’s a problem because I’m not doing anything and when I’m doing things faster it’s also not okay. I really don’t know what to do and I’m feeling like just accepting the answer that it will just never work between us. She is also the first one I’m trying to do it with so I can’t help but think I might be the problem.